I'm not quite sure if I was having PMS lately or am I just easily frustrated at how difficult to get things through to his HEAD!! Jon's grandfather is having his family reunion at 1pm today and yesterday we've talked about that I would go with him multiple times when he asked me whether I wanted to join. I thought we were clear on things. But then, this morning after he took Jake (his cousin) to his MMA(mix martial arts) practice, he called me and ask me once again whether I am going again or not? How many times do I have to repeat myself to him that I'M INDEED going with him. DUH !!! Hello? Were you paying attention to what I was telling you last night?? I feel like I wanted to bang my head on the wall- but I'm not that stupid enough to do so.
Therefore, I'm searching on google why men tends to do that to women. As a result, there's 33.5 millions hits on this topic. Interesting isn't it. I guess men's behavior are universal all across the globe. Well, researcher have found that male and female listening apparatus are completely different as male only uses half of their brain while female using both sides of the brain during a conversation. In addition, female also contains more nerve cells in their brain and has higher concentration of dopamine which control language and memory skills, which means that they can deliver message in more efficient way. Even though we are the same species, everything else is so different.
It took alot of effort to make a relationship successful and that is good communications. Both male and female needs to understand each other differences and hopefully won't be frustrated at each other. During the research of the topic, I found this very interesting book called "Why men never listen & Women can't read Map" . They cover all aspect of the in's and out's of a relationship. It's witty and entertaining :)
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